tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5129942056638738431.post2179785328109242856..comments2023-05-11T22:03:14.850+09:00Comments on Green-Eyed Geisha: Dodging the QuestionGreen-Eyed Geishahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11947626500845582990noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5129942056638738431.post-81406685672347281702008-10-14T15:38:00.000+09:002008-10-14T15:38:00.000+09:00astrorainfall: I am still puzzled as to why gaiji...astrorainfall: I am still puzzled as to why gaijin guys are put on a pedestal as purveyors of romance and chivalry. I think that if it came down to it, there would be a fairly similar split in numbers between guys women would want to date and those they wouldn't, regardless of whether they are Japanese or gaijin.<BR/><BR/>Lisa: I wish I knew! I'm going to write a post on the two books as soon as I finish them but I doubt I'll be able to shed much light. I think it's a mix of married and unmarried men AND women cheating with each other. In a nutshell, people who aren't getting intimacy in their relationships take up with other people, but I also don't understand what's in it for unmarried men/women.Green-Eyed Geishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11947626500845582990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5129942056638738431.post-57277275910632217612008-10-12T02:47:00.000+09:002008-10-12T02:47:00.000+09:00Are these married men cheating with unmarried Japa...Are these married men cheating with unmarried Japanese women? Or non-Japanese women? I don't get why unmarried Japanese women would waste their time on married men. Are these women who are just looking for a boyfriend, or are these the same women who are interested in getting married and moving to Saitama?<BR/><BR/>I don't know how people have time to cheat!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08083784288835156154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5129942056638738431.post-87799184506496777012008-10-09T17:09:00.000+09:002008-10-09T17:09:00.000+09:00How frustrating. I hear ya. I must say that cheati...How frustrating. I hear ya. I must say that cheating in japan is a topic I cannot wrap my head around.<BR/><BR/>Well, I've had a couple of japanese gfs who feel very indignant about this widespread cheating thing and their solution is to date gaijin men who think cheating is a lot more taboo than your average Japanese dude. Even the ones who frequent Roppongi :p<BR/><BR/>I do have a Japanese male friend who takes relationships and sex very seriously, but it does seem he's in the minority.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com